Signs of Cheating In a Relationship
Have you noticed your partner getting home at odd times in the night? Does your partner go to multiple company functions without inviting you or telling you? They say they are going out with “friends” more then they did before? These signs could mean your partner is doing more than working, they are cheating.
Some Common Signs of Cheating
Is money missing? If your noticing that your partner has bills sent to the office, doesn’t show you the bill, just tells you the amount, has them shredded, or even locks them in files there’s a chance something is going on. Does their attitude change? Normally, they won’t want to spend time with their family, and their money becomes more important.
You feel avoided. They begin to seem annoyed with working and with your own kids. They get defensive of subjects, such as affairs, and they are more secretive about things going one and become lazy. Their daily schedule begins to look different to you, and they leave suspicious items, like gift cards and gifts, laying around. They begin to become protective of items like their cell phone, and PDA. You could find pictures or unknown numbers on those items, and they wouldn’t want you to question these. Are they coming home late and smelling like alcohol.
There are other signs of cheating like picking fights and stomping out of the house, forgetting to wear their wedding ring, refusing to go shopping with you, and requesting that you go see your family alone. They start to smell different and care about what they look like. They start to work longer hours and weekends and days off. They never answer their phones. They use their phone more than normal, and receive messages at crazy times.
Your partner may turn the accusation around on you, and say that your cheating. Your sex pattern may change, and they may be constantly asking you what your schedule is, so their affair can be worked out.
You need to listen to your head, and not your heart. This could end badly, and painfully for you if you don’t follow your feelings.
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