You Don’t Have to Go It By Yourself
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
Life Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem problems is very helpful in addressing this next question. Women seem to suffer mostly from trust, sense of abandonment and worthiness issues. Coaching Life for Women is one way to solve this issue in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to the survey concerning love and the Law of Attraction, I am assuming you’ve considering creating a relationship for yourself. Many people decide to stay out of intimate relationships. And that is not always the situation for someone who has given up because they’ve continuously been unsuccessful. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilled and fantastic with any choice you make.
As long as you know you’re deciding that instead of giving up out of frustration that you haven’t found the relationship of your dreams. You can have it all in a relationship and in your life.
If you could see yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you’d be viewing a wonderful, fantastic, illuminated, connected being. Then life begins to occur around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, tell us from birth what we need to look out for, warn us, caution us, and try to protect us, effectively having us adhere to their fear and insecurities instead of tuning in to our own guidance. OK, I will grant you as simple new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But shortly following they understand to function by themselves, self-empowerment should be part of the training for the small children.
Well-meaning guides want to do the best thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only creates a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded as a child.
Neurological research now tells us that before we’re 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It’s no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we’ve listened to the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t do that. The subliminal communication says you’re unworthy, you cannot believe in yourself, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They only wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy on yourself and let yourself have a break. First off, it’s not your fault. It is not even the fault of your elders. They were taught that way too. You can end the prevalence of lower self-esteem on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have everything you wants.
Do your very best to lavish yourself love and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!