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No one can tell you what to do with your life.  if you would like to get some help get hold of an expert. They have the answer to your deepest questions because they understand you and know more about things than you thought.When I say expert, there some tangible experts and some intangible ones if you want a medical opinion, it makes sens to go to a guy who has years of experience, top qualifications and more than that lots of success in his medical practice right?

So when you need some advice on a intangible thing like relationship, should you apply the same logic? Yes and No. Qualifications mean nothing when it comes to matters of heart. If you are not aware of it, Psychologists and counselors have some of the highest rates of suicides in US. and for all you know they may be married and divorced three times by the time they are forty. So going just by credentials is not teh right approach. Mere experience also does not count because they may have been in practice for over 30 years with a verifiable success rate of 2% which is not at all impressive and in most cases, psychologists and counselors intentionally do not keep a track of their success rates, because it is depressing….instead they prefer to keep a track through diplomas hanging on the wall.

So where do you go for advice on relationship issues?

Let me introduce you to TW Jackson and no, he has not appeared on Dr Phil or Oprah. But he is kind of a celebrity on the internet for having one of the most successful ebooks on relationships on the Internet. he does not have Phd in Psychology.  His book is filled more with real world tactics than  footnotes and reference. It is filled with things that work!!!

Imagine this. From past 2 years he is selling this eBook with a 6 week refund period. would he have lasted this long had he not fulfilled his promise?

probably not.

The Book is called The Magic of Making up.

TW Jackson, the genius behind the eBook, has helped people who want to make their relationships work. He gives solutions to couples who are about to downhill and end things. Even if you think that it is hopeless, there’s always a way to fix things. The book shows you exactly what to do and say to win your significant other back. You’ll see that there are still endless possibilities out there for everyone.

As time passes by, things change, even in relationships. It can be sweet some of the times, and can be sour on rainy days. If you’re both mature about it, you are able to cope. Unfortunately, people work in different ways. Not everyone will respond to changes positively.

You may actually be the only one trying to do something at all and you wouldn’t want to see yourself in this sorry situation. You only make things work if you try to insist upon things. You will find your partner growing further away from you. He’ll lie and hurt you even further just to push you away. If you just turn back the clock and go back to when mistakes haven’t been made, then maybe you can salvage the relationship.

What you need is an objective eye to see what’s really wrong and to tell you what to do. Purchase this eBook if you need help because it really is able to get you through tough times and bring the love back.
Liek I said,it has stood the test of time,been around for two years now. It has worked for people from different countries, different socio cultures and different situations.

So if you need advice… this is where you should check out TW Jackson.

Hi,
I am married for three years and I am a hindu by birth and I got married to the same caste guy.Everything was going on well till my son was born.He is now 2 and after some 2 years of my married life we are fighting very commonly and now I am in the US where my husband constantly threatens me that he”ll divorce me.He knows very well that I love him so much but still I dont know why he does that pretty often.Can someone tell me what is going on in my life? ( Sounds kind of crazy,But it”ll be great if I know from a third person’s perspective)
Since you asked for more details:
I got conceived around 3 months sfter my marriage which is a mutual decision.and i have bloated to double the size i was during my pregnancy which I have lost my weight now.I am at home and he goes to office.I dont insult his parents or anyone.I dont speak to him as he gets annoyed so easily now a days.and I dont think if i speak to him he”ll listen .as whatever I speak he finds a mistake and shouts and starts up a fight.

Well here’s the thing…if he’s threatening you with divorce constantly, maybe he’s not so committed to this marriage as you are. This could either be him trying to manipulate you by making threats to leave you and your son or it could be him trying to piss you off enough so you’ll tell him to go ahead and leave (which may be what he wants).

Don’t get me wrong, i believe that once someone gets married, it should be for life. And when problems come up, i believe you should try everything to work them out and ONLY when someone cheats or abuses the other person is that an acceptable excuse to leave. However, if one person is bent on leaving, do not blame yourself because it was not your fault. Try to work it out but recognize that you can not control what your husband ultimately does.

I think you two need to go to a marriage counselor. He needs to stop making threats if he doesn’t actually mean them; if he does mean them, i doubt anything you will try will save the marriage unless he changes his mind.

So just ask him; find out whether or not he’s serious. Sit him down and talk to him. Ask him if he really wants to leave. If he says no, explain to him exactly how horrible it makes you feel to hear him say that.

My husband has said he thinks he might have married me out of guilt. We had a child prior to marriage. He doesn't know if he loves me or wants our marriage to work. How can we rejuviante our marriage and work through his feelings to save our marriage???

The marriage itself should be your last concern.

Your first concern is to talk to your husband and determine if he really loves you. If he doesn't love you, then there is no reason to have a shell of a marriage just to keep up appearances for your child.

Per the bible, love hurts no one and love doesn't seek selfish advantage. And further, your husband would love you AS MUCH AS he loves himself. If these statements are not holding true in your marriage, then you already have your answer.

I cheated on my hubby (once) before we got married 5 yrs ago, and yes i confess what I did before we said ''I Do'',then he recently cheated on me and got busted. I have filed for a divorce, but we believe that our marriage can be saved, but are at a lost where to began repairing the damage, when we have our families in our ears telling us that we're stupid to save it, because someone who cheats will always cheat??

It is great that both of you want to save the marriage! With both of you working, you should be able to save it.

1) IGNORE THE FAMILIES! They don't know all the intimate details and don't need to. Just smile and say that's an interesting idea and go on.

2) GET COUNSELING! From a real marriage counselor. They may be expensive, but some insurance companies will cover part of the cost. It is worth it to save your marriage.

3) DON'T LISTEN TO OTHER OPINIONS! Its true that "Once a cheater – always a cheater" applies to most cases. But it will not apply to your marriage if you are both working to make it better.

GOOD LUCK, I WISH YOU THE BEST!!
It is so wonderful to hear that both people care about the marriage!

I need help to save a marriage, I mean does anyone here have and hidden tips that work? I found a guide thats suppose to be the best at http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com but I want to try consuling first to help save my marriage. Any tips? Thanks

water what u have…. He's providing for the family and he whats everything to be perfect and he needs u to be by his side and support him

MAKE HIM WANT U!!!!
DONT WALK AROUND THE HOUSE IN SWEATS OR A HOUSE DRESS…WERE IS THE SEXY FREAK AT?

* Foreplay, Foreplay Foreplay
*Tease him at work so he cant wait to get home to u…..leave him Hey Big Daddy voicemail…" Hey Big Daddy, your Baby Girl needs u to tuck her in tonight……boast his ego…they love that
*U find alot of nice outfits on ebay….nurse, frech maid…than look at the itens they r selling too.
*When u go out together when he's driving get me excited…rub on him or even pull it out and just please him while he driving.
*Having sex on the floor is awsome…especially doggie style…u are are really leveled.
*Perform oral sex on him for atleast 30min…..dont even have intercourse…Let him know u all about pleasing him
*Wake him up at 2am with oral sex.
*Wear nothing but a tank top or a nice shirt that stops right at your butt around the house all the time…not the same one everyday…..believe me he will take a peep when u cooking or cleaning
*Rub up on him or back into him at the store.
*Go to the Dept Store once a month and get a Free Makeover…come home cook, serve him and watch a movie with nothing on but a shirt so u can easily make out on the couch.

******Make Soft Voices in His Ear when you all have sex*********
If u dont now, start slowing dont be unbelievable…..

MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE THE MAN AT ALL TIMES AND THAT HE IS NEEDED….Plus make sure u thank him for everything he does for the family