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How to Cease Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
“I often tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I had from my long history of relationship failures. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or traveled a great deal.
When you continue attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that has a fear of commitment, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to accept right now, but that’s what I have found to be the situation most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get extremely clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you desire in your perfect match.
You create the list for yourself so you can attain clear about what it is you really desire. You will begin to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you make the list. You’ll see where you need to go to increase your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re asking for.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I desire this”? It is time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do together. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Most of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you receive, it is not kosher to ask for favors, why can you not just be content with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.
You Don’t Have to Go It By Yourself
Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
Life Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem problems is very helpful in addressing this next question. Women seem to suffer mostly from trust, sense of abandonment and worthiness issues. Coaching Life for Women is one way to solve this issue in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to the survey concerning love and the Law of Attraction, I am assuming you’ve considering creating a relationship for yourself. Many people decide to stay out of intimate relationships. And that is not always the situation for someone who has given up because they’ve continuously been unsuccessful. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilled and fantastic with any choice you make.
As long as you know you’re deciding that instead of giving up out of frustration that you haven’t found the relationship of your dreams. You can have it all in a relationship and in your life.
If you could see yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you’d be viewing a wonderful, fantastic, illuminated, connected being. Then life begins to occur around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, tell us from birth what we need to look out for, warn us, caution us, and try to protect us, effectively having us adhere to their fear and insecurities instead of tuning in to our own guidance. OK, I will grant you as simple new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But shortly following they understand to function by themselves, self-empowerment should be part of the training for the small children.
Well-meaning guides want to do the best thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only creates a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded as a child.
Neurological research now tells us that before we’re 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It’s no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we’ve listened to the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t do that. The subliminal communication says you’re unworthy, you cannot believe in yourself, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They only wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy on yourself and let yourself have a break. First off, it’s not your fault. It is not even the fault of your elders. They were taught that way too. You can end the prevalence of lower self-esteem on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have everything you wants.
Do your very best to lavish yourself love and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!