Posts Tagged ‘soul mate’
Should I Give up on Positive Affirmations? Spiritual Life Coach Answers your Law of Attraction Relationship Questions
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
If you’ve attempted repeating positive realizations, messing with vision boards and other utilities to help get you in the attraction mode and they haven’t been effective, there may be several reasons. Affirmations and Vision Boards are utilities you can use when you want help getting into that emotional place of what it is like to have your desire manifested. If you are practicing facilitating the utilities and not actually seeing the emotional center, then you are just doing a rote action and will not likely get a lot of success. If you are finding that emotional place and still not receiving results, then chances are you have got more resistance than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I didn’t understand what was in the way. I needed to get life coaching that manifested all of the difference.
As for affirmations, remember the Universe matches your energy, your aligned intention, instead of the ideas you think. So you can have thoughts and speak all day long, and if you’re sending out envy when you see a person who has a thriving love relationship, you are transmitting lack. And not a thing has to physically occur around you in order for your beloved to manifest. You do not need to move to a larger abode, or a better neighborhood, or a city that’s populated with singles or couples however way you see it. All you have to accomplish is begin where you are and end the resistance.
Picture a scale. I mean, the the scales of justice. Imagine it equally balanced with no weights on either side. Now imagine that every occurrence you put a happy intention over on the right side you put weight on the attraction end and each occurrence you have a doubtful thought, you place a weight on the resistance end. Where do you imagine you really weigh in? The funny thing is, I thought I was a positive person. Oh boy, was I wrong. Not only did I have a lot of rackets about previous relationships, but I didn’t even realize it. Along the way it is helpful to have a Law of Attraction Life Coach who is skilled and objective who can understand to what is happening in your life and help you surface up the limiting beliefs.
The reality is, if you only practiced unparalleled appreciation and stayed feeling good, you’d be letting go of a lot of resistance regularly and any of your desires would manifest very darn quickly. Use Spiritual Life Coaching for New Relationships Courses to your advantage. So keep on appreciating all that is good in your life!
Are you Single? Here’s How To Find and Keep Love using the Law of Attraction
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
Single people who desire to grasp the Law of Attraction to find love often come to me for advice. These people ask, “Can you attract the wrong lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I will elaborate. You attract the “Wrong” relationship with a basis on what it is you project you desire. That is, your words are saying “I want someone who is fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” but your true subconscious intention is something more to the tune of … “I can never meet the right woman. Why do my friends have such an easy time of it? What is wrong with me? Where are all of the single amazing women? And so on. So you’re going to end up creating more concerning what you’re thinking and what you’re expecting to occur. So is she incorrect? Or is your thought pattern incorrect? The Law of Attraction states what you pay attention to you get more of. So if you are not in a relationship and are searching for a relationship, you need to pay attention to what it is like to be in love, not the other way around.
A fantastic exercise to change your thinking on this is by using a powerful tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You can use this tool when you see you have a lot of negative vibrations and need to keep changing the direction of your intention and find a more harmonious feeling mindset. When you desire to strengthen your threshold of attraction because you’ve got some negative momentum going. Here is how it works: you should do this by hand to get the hang of it. I truly suggest that you always handwrite a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll desire to give yourself at least 15 minutes for this process.
Near the top of the paper write the area of what you want a more harmonious vibrational set point on. Perhaps a certain thing has gotten your attention that you do not desire, you would prefer to not experience it, or perhaps you have got a large bit of judgment about it and resent yourself for it. Write down what that is. Now see that you know what you don’t desire and the contrast has helped you to hone the desire of what you DO want. Your task is to write down in detail you want. And continue directing your desire to the better feeling desire. Put down lists of what you appreciate about what IS working, what’s good, what you have that you DO like, even about the present life situation. Look for things to be grateful for in the area and in any outside or related situation. This will point you to the positive attraction mode. You will attract what you want instead of negative intentions. Try it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?
Trouble with Trusting After Divorce
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
So you would like to understand to love again after being scarred from a rough divorce. Getting help from friends and family can sometimes be the worst place to go to if you want to heal your heart and love again.
If you are struggling with relationship advice issues due to a person in your past had had an affair, it is conceivable to love again. A huge breach of trust can be very troublesome and have a lot of persisting power. Just the same, you should find peace and healing before you can continue on with your life. I suggest that you be gentle and easy on yourself and keep looking for the place of forgiveness and release. You want to attract a relationship with a person you trust and share your heart with completely, so you should take out any persisting negative energy.
Oftentimes it is the same tale we tell ourselves and others that has us creating reasons to go on perpetuating the lifestyle we may live, or making excuses for our inhibiting qualities.
Give some thought to the “truths” you have about your personality. I hope you’re examining the heavy limitations that were instilled at an early age; the tales (that live like reality) concerning you and why you haven’t been happy, why you cannot have what you want, why you are not good enough in the area of relationships or just life in general.
I would suggest you come up with a sentence that summarizes that shadow side or irrational belief. I call it an irrational belief because you’ve obviously come through life taking care of yourselves very well in many areas. You’re experienced in plenty of fields, you excel in a few areas and you’re down-right brilliant in others. You have high expectations and skills that, on the level of the intellect, prove to you that you ARE good enough – in many cases absolutely stunning.
What was that previous motto, call it your ‘life sentence’ that sums up a tightly held belief that has little to do with your rationality or intellect. Create a new life sentence like an affirmation that supports and empowers you. You can recieve free Relationship Advice for Women After Divorce.
I keep dating men who won’t commit. How do I change these relationship patterns?
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
You have arrived at the perfect area for Law of Attraction dating and relationship advice. This is what I like to call a valuable question. Arline, a woman from Brazil,, claims she continues attracting guys who do not commit to a relationship. She desires to find out how she can change these relationship qualms. It is obvious to see that Arline holds herself responsible for this pattern. I find that there is huge amounts of power in taking responsibility for what’s going on in your life. That is a magnificent leap in the deliberate attraction process. I understand just how it you are feeling, because that was my story previous to when I attracted my giant relationship breakthrough. I kept attracting guys who were afraid of commitment. What I didn’t realize was that I was sending out unclear signals. It truly is amazing how we can say we want one thing and yet transmit a message that attracts just the opposite.
You want to love someone who’s committed to the relationship. You don’t want to be afraid and wonder if he’s feeling good if you’re the only one who’s truly committed. The energy of “insecure” in the relationship sends more messages of uncertainty. Using Law of Attraction Dating will just mirror back to you even more of the same. You want to harness this energy by creating what it feels like to feel right in your love. Do you know what it feel like to know for a fact you’re worthy of being loved unconditionally? Create with the energy of how lovely that feels and you will be sending the Universe an altogether different intention entirely.
We are all powerful attractors and we desire to realize how to get more of what we want in life and love. I coach some hugely powerful techniques in shifting your point of attraction, called Shifting Focus. You will learn about this and much more in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams. Get powerful Law of Attraction Relationship and Dating Advice.
Learn how to Trust and Find True Love
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
A lot of us carry over trust issues from past relationships, or sometimes childhood problems and traumas. The intense feelings from these memories can be a real factor in our ability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. This was unfortunately real in my case, and I was not able to free myself from previous emotional rackets until I got help from a Life Coach. The first step is to discover exactly what story you have in play that is preventing you from truly living and then expunge it from your mind.
Try writing in a journal and answer these questions:
What happened in my relationship and did I make it mean something it didn’t actually have to?
What is the most pervasive feeling I feel concerning this event?
What is the most recent occurrence I can remember when a similar incident occurred, or felt similar emotions?
Pay mind to how this conclusion or judgement you discovered concerning the earliest case is a way of functioning that causes you to react to any situation that is similar.
When the issue is trusting, it’s usually comes from an early experience and there is a deeply held belief concerning your safety in relationships or in general. Most likely, this previous relationship wasn’t the first occurrence you have had trusting issues. What you believe and feel and what occurs in your life experience is always a vibrational match. Learning self-analysis with law of attraction transformational tools and techniques helps you understand what recurrences you hold that operate as a fixed feeling. There’s no room for growth or expansion when you contain a belief that is solidified in your mind. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.
Beliefs are just thoughts that you, your culture, and all people around you, continue repeating. Thoughts, pondered upon long enough change into thought form. Thought forms change into actual reality when you, or others in your life, keep conjuring it up. You see it “out there” as evidence to justify your thoughts or beliefs. After a while these thought forms become part of your life experience.
Ultimately it’s what you decide to do with the belief and the judgement that goes alongside it, and the interpretation of what you believe is good or bad about what you’re viewing or thinking. This interpretation changes the thought into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. This feeling is what transfers to the Universe that then attracts the essence of it and the emotional level is matched back in your life experience.
When you have freed up more positive expectation, begin to cultivate a positive mindset for what’s capable in a relationship. Let your imagination assist you. Use time visualizing yourself with a loving partner. You like going for walks together. You’re holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your mind is an amazing tool and your thoughts in conjunction with heartfelt emotion turn your thoughts into magnets. If you are suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you will take these practices to heart you will find you will not just trust again, but attract the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all areas.